A network of Pastors and Ministry Couples. Blended Souls is a gathering of "sista's" and "brotha's", from various Christian denominations, ages, economic and ethnic backgrounds. Our goal is to purposefully make an impact for change in the world by promoting unity, opportunities for ministry couples to network, and exchange ideas so that our churches can partner together within our communities. We strive to reach out to women and men from every tongue, tribe and nation!

Thursday, March 29, 2012

A LittleTaste of Heaven!

I should have known when Stephanie Shouse and I connected last year through Leading and Loving It that it wouldn't be the last time. Stephanie actually won a copy of "Church Diversity" after I did a review and gave away a book on my blog. Then this month she joined our BSN community after a conversation we had about the future of Blended Souls Network and the goals for this ministry. Apparently Stephanie and her husband have been hosting "BSN like" events for a few years without even knowing it! In Part 1 of a 2 Part blog post you will see how her and her husbands heart for ministry lead them to start a Little Taste of Heaven in Kentucky!


As a student at Columbia International University I got to experience a little taste of heaven every single day. At 10:40 am we would gather all the students and faculty together for chapel services. And every morning I stood to worship side by side with fellow believers from all over the world. Whether we were singing hymns, contemporary praise songs or listening to an international choir singing in other languages, we were all worshiping the same God, the same Savior, in the same Spirit. That's what I imagine heaven is gonna be like...except that we'll probably all be in tune... :)

But then came graduation and we all went our separate ways. We moved to churches where we were comfortable. We congregated with our friends and families. We settled into our routines of worshiping with people who were just like us in every way. Until one day we looked up and realized that our worship was so very one-dimensional. What happened? Why did we exchange diversity for monotony? And why doesn't anyone seem to mind?
When Jeff & I lived in New Orleans we began to see the problem. During the week we would be surrounded by people of various races, cultures, and socio-economic status. But on Sunday when we attended church, we were surrounded with people who were all the same. One church was all white, one church was all black, one church was all middle-class suburbanites, one church was all college educated, one church was all working class, one church was all "old-money" southerners... Whether the separation was intentional or not, it was definitely obvious. Isn't there somewhere that we can all worship together like we did back in college?

But we were not in charge of any of those churches back then. We didn't have any say in how things were done. Then God moved us to Kentucky. He gave us a church and a vision of doing great things for Him. We longed for authentic worship, practical ministry and the co-existence of both unity and diversity. Do you know how hard it is to be intentional about diversity when your community is 90% white? Hmmm...
Then about three years ago God began to move in the hearts of various pastors and church leaders. The desire to gather their churches to worship together in a show of unity began to form. And suddenly we found ourselves leading the first ever worship gathering of Henderson Area Churches. At first the emphasis was on unity. Two of the churches choosing to participate had split from one body a mere three years before. Getting the people from both churches to sit in the same room together, much less worship, was a seemingly impossible task. But God wanted to show His great power by allowing pride to be broken, hearts softened and bitterness ended. What followed has been an amazing testimony to His grace!

Henderson Area Churches now meet every 5th Sunday for a joint worship celebration. Our celebrations include 8-12 churches from all over our county, and are some of the most fun times I've ever experienced in ministry! A typical celebration includes many forms of worship such as:
  • A white, middle-class praise team sings contemporary Christian music (usually Chris Tomlin) with a CD track
  • A blue-grass band complete with steel guitar and honky-tonk piano sing "I'll Fly Away"
  • A black choir of pentecostal persuasion claps and sways as they sing a traditional call & response accompanied by piano and drums
  • A tattooed former biker couple blast out classic rock tunes with a spiritual twist
  • A pastor and his wife in traditional Baptist clothing (i.e. suit & dress) sing an old hymn as their son plays piano
  • A group of ladies from a small country church sing a Nicole C. Mullins song with hands lifted high
  • A group of young people from a well-to-do African America church perform a worship dance wearing white gloves and praise dresses
  • A youth group of mostly poor, white kids from difficult family backgrounds performs a dramatic interpretation of Christ rescuing them from the power of Satan
  • A group of teens and women stretch out of their Baptist comfort zones to dance to a Mandisa song, hoping they won't get laughed at  or kicked out of their church...(That was my creative ministry team... :) )
All of these expressions come together to form a toe-tapping, unpredictable symphony of heart-felt worship that once again gives us just a little taste of heaven.

"By this all people will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.” John 13:35
All of this does not come without a struggle. The enemy does not want us to be unified. He wants us to remain divided. It takes a lot of work to make worship like this possible... why do you think we only attempt it once a quarter? In the next post I will tell you some of the practical things we have learned in order to make intentionally worshiping in unity and diversity happen in our area.
What do you think about unity & diversity in worship? What has been your experience?
Come back next week to read Part 2 "Gates Of Hell"!

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Breaking Ground on a Multi-Ethnic Ministry in Belize

Last week Bethel Disciples International Church in Belmopan, Belize broke ground for a new ministry building.  It was an incredible experience that we are still excited from.  This church began many years ago but the building is part of a new phase for this congregation.  

Pastor Lim Han came from South Korea as an 18 year old and has been serving the Lord and planting churches for over 20 years in the Cayo area of Belize.  His heart for the Lord and for discipling His people no matter what their ethnic background are evident throughout the 15 churches he has planted.  Some are Spanish speaking, some are English speaking and the church we attend, Bethel Disciples, includes the founding members who are Chinese speaking believers so the service is translated into Mandarin for them.

 The service was attended by over 400 people and here are some of the memories from that day...


Pastor Dan and Johnny (worship leader)

members of the worship team including a few people from one of the sister churches

the children's choir was too large to fit in one photo...





Pastor Han, speaking while Phillip translates into Spanish
 


everyone at the service had an opportunity to write out prayers for the new building...

leaders from the various sister churches launched them into the sky...


finally breaking the ground!


Jill and her team serving snacks when the service ended...


Bethel's plans for the ten acres are to have a Meeting Place, a Medical Center, a Media Center and a Multi-Purpose  Building.  Tom and I are excited to be a part of the ministry at Bethel and we love that the church personifies what Blended Souls is all about.  It is truly a place where everyone can feel welcome.   And we felt that the ground breaking service...with all of the sister churches included...was a slice of what heaven will be like!

Friday, March 16, 2012

ALL Nations!


Tonight I got a chance to witness what heaven will look like! A coming together of churches from every denomination, race, and age! Small churches, side by side with large churches all under one roof praising and worshipping together! All for one cause! We were there in support of my friend Pam (who just happens to be a Pastors wife) and the ministry Love and Hope Ministries. As I sat there I kept seeing the vision God had placed in our hearts for Blended Souls!

Then I did something I never imagined I would have the nerve to do four or five years ago. I got up the courage to approach several pastors, introduce myself and share the vision that is BSN! I don't know if any of the connections I made this evening will go anywhere but what I gained in confidence will take me forward for the weeks and months to come. One couple said this was something they had actually just been talking about. One man told me how happy he was that we were starting this ministry because he knew ministry leaders who would benefit from the connection! It was just the confirmation we needed.

If you have a passion for diversity, a heart for pastor and pastor wives, a want to connect with other churches in your community and a willingness to network and share ideas with one another to further the Kingdom then BSN may be just what you are looking for! You can connect with us on twitter, and facebook. We also have a private page for pastor and ministry wives. We look forward to fellowshipping with you in the near future!